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So here are my 7 must-have qualities every man should have if he wants the love of a good woman. I went back to my archives from August 2019 to dig this up.
Let me start with saying “There are no rules”!
We all are different and have our different vibes. What works for one, may not work for another. That said, there are things that connect to our nature as men and women.
Being in a relationship is a beautiful part of life especially when it is purposeful. I hear some men say “I can’t seem to find the right woman for marriage” even though they may have several girl friends and dating too.
They feel really helpless in that search for what may not be missing or what may just be a change of mindset.
Today’s blog is sweet too!
You know that feeling and that assurance you have that your present relationship is not worth your further investment. Your reasons whatsoever, but yet weeks and months are running into a year and yet you can’t bring yourself to tell her that it is over.
That voice telling you to feign “not available”, “angry”, “relocated” is also just low self esteem. Please do not listen to it anymore.
I titled this initially LESSONS Vs EMPATHY but here is why.
See eh, I know we all say, when something goes wrong, pick the L (lessons) and heal. While it holds true and works for many, it doesn’t work for many others. Lol
I have been trying to explain this to Ste (remember him?) here but he isn’t understanding my situation yet.
In our times, women seem to be learning more, asking questions more, developing themselves more daily and therefore know the kind of men that can secure their lives, homes and career dreams and hopefully amplify these aspirations as they support their men.
WHO PUT US IN THIS INHUMANE TRAP? Weird question, huh?
Well, I had a conversation with a dear someone recently about emotions and how being ‘too emotional’ could make someone a mess…
In his opinion, being too emotional (affectionate, really) and showing it in a relationship makes girls take advantage of you (he is a man). He told how he had suffered in the hands of a cheating girlfriend and how that experience left a big scar on him almost a decade after.
No more relationships for him since then…only flings, he finished.